According to experts, sex is about 10 times more effective as a tranquillizer than Valium.
What the hell does this have to do with anything you ask? If you’ve read ANY of my material, you know that I preach the mantra “Those who have much will receive more.” This is true. It’s a conundrum but it’s pure fact. Ok, how the hell does this relate to you and your dating life? Allow me to explain, good sir.
How do you act when you have had a lot of sex during a week (yes, one woman still counts). How do you act when you are satisfied with your dating life? Hopefully you have experienced this state at least a little bit because here is the humdinger. This is when you are most likely to score another girl. Why you ask? Because evolution has programmed women to want what other women want. Women want the man that already has women. Simple as that.
In an experiment, a plastic male duck was placed in an open field during mating season. Just by himself. Chillin’. Needless to say, our plastic friend was not very successful with the ladies. Then that same duck was paired up with another female plastic duck and guess what happened? …no really, you have to guess. Bingo! He was VERY successful. Female ducks from all around strived to find his plastic little… okay, that’s enough. You get it?
Your body language will change after you’ve had sex. You will be relaxed. You won’t be trying. You won’t care. You will be satisfied and confident and your body language will reflect that! I once knew a guy who was very successful. At times, I thought he was going to pass out or fall over he was so relaxed. On that note, I have personally never met a guy who moved quickly and was high strung who was successful with women.
So the next time you are out. Practice this body language. Drop your shoulders. Relax your eyelids a bit. Move slower.
Here are some good examples of what you should be doing.
Hank Moody from Californication
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zorEMHb3o0Y
One of my favorite guys out there, Cajun
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PamWnKC5ueY&feature=related
So relax, relax, RELAAAAXX. I recommend meditation and/or getting a good workout in before you go out. (that is if you can’t get laid before)
And on the final note, if you can get laid/bj before, watch your success rate soar and send your thank yous to theswaggerlee@gmail.com
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